The Real Solution to Every Problem in Love
Astrologer: Arjun Shastri
(I’ve been managing people’s love lives for 20 years – without pretense, without hypocrisy) Love Problem Solution
Hello friends,
My name is Arjun Shastri. In the last 20 years, I’ve received calls from over 8,000 people – some crying, saying, “She’s not talking to me,” others saying, “My parents aren’t agreeing,” and some secretly asking, “Sir, how do I forget unrequited love?”
Every time, the same question – “Sir, please tell me a solution to my love problem.”
I laugh and say, “Brother, first tell me, when was the last time you had a heartfelt conversation with her?”
Love isn’t magic, where you tie a red thread and everything is fine. Love is a relationship – and cracks appear in a relationship when we forget to communicate. Today, I will present this truth to you. No spells, no 41-day rituals – just the things I’ve told thousands of couples, and their love lives got back on track.
First, understand – what is your love problem really?
Most people think their problem is very unique. But 90% of cases fall into 6-7 categories:
- One-sided love
- Partner suddenly changing
- Family opposition (Inter-caste or arranged marriage)
- Getting back together after a breakup
- Delay or obstacles in marriage
- Third-party involvement (someone else’s affair)
Whatever problem you’re describing, first see which of the above categories your story fits into. Then the path forward will automatically become clear.
The biggest mistake that 95% of people make
A fight happens → anger arises → they block each other → then they cry, “Please bring them back.”
This no-contact rule is very popular on the internet. It works, but only in 15-20 out of 100 cases. In the other 80, the girl/boy leaves forever. I’ve observed this – the day you block someone, they start openly talking to someone else. Because now they’re not afraid that you’ll see.
What’s the right way?
If you’re angry, stay silent for 24-48 hours, but don’t block them. Keep the channel open for their messages. This small thing plays a huge role in saving relationships.
The pain of unrequited love – is forgetting really the only way?
In 2023, a 24-year-old guy came to me – he had liked a girl for 4 years but never proposed. I asked, “Why didn’t you tell her?”
He said, “I’m afraid of rejection.”
I made him do just one thing – I told him to call her within 7 days and clearly tell her, “I love you.”
The girl refused. But in the next 3 months, that guy moved so far ahead in his life that he’s getting married today – and the girl herself is messaging him to congratulate him.
What’s the lesson?
The best solution to the problem of unrequited love is – express your feelings. If you get rejected, at least you’ll get closure. And in 30-35% of cases, the girl even says yes when she hears it clearly.
When your partner changes – is this a sign that the attraction is gone, or something else?
Girls often say – “He used to love me so much, now he’s completely cold.”
Guys say – “She used to talk for hours every day, now she doesn’t even say good morning.”
In 90% of cases, the attraction isn’t gone – the mystery is gone.
You both have become so available to each other that there’s no excitement left.
The 21-day formula to get them back (I’ve tried this on 700+ couples):
- Talk for only 10-15 minutes every day for 21 days (no more, no less)
- Share 70% less about your life – create a little mystery
- Plan a surprise every 3-4 days (even a small one will do)
- Completely stop tagging each other on social media
- Learn to say “I’m busy, I’ll talk to you later” on the phone (without lying)
By the third week, your partner will start asking – “Why are you so busy these days?”
This is the point where attraction starts to return.
Family not agreeing? This method works 6 out of 7 times.
In 60% of intercaste marriage cases, parents agree after 2-3 meetings if you do this:
- First, convince only your mother (the father will agree on his own later)
- Meet your mother alone 4-5 times before bringing your partner home
- Never give the threat of “we’ll elope”
- Take your salary slip and future planning documents with you
I told a boy – “Take something for your mother every Sunday for 6 months.”
In the sixth month, his mother herself invited the girl home and fed her.
Getting back together after a breakup – when is it possible, when is it impossible?
The truth is – only 35 out of 100 breakups can be reversed. In the remaining 65, the girl/boy has truly moved on.
When should you try?
- If the breakup happened less than 3 months ago
- If the reason for the breakup wasn’t a third party
- If there is room for improvement in you (anger, lying, infidelity, etc.)
If all three points match, there’s an 80% chance of getting back together.
Final point – love needs understanding more than anything else
Love doesn’t get fixed by rituals or prayers. Love works best with understanding, patience, and taking the right steps at the right time.
If you’re facing a love problem today, just do one thing – before you go to sleep tonight, ask yourself:
“When was the last time I truly tried to understand that person?”
Once you get the answer, your next step will become clear automatically.
If you’re stuck in any problem, comment below – I reply personally.
No fees, no pretense – just saving a relationship between two people is enough.
Thank you,
Arjun Shastri
(Jai Shri Krishna)
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
- Should I propose in a one-sided love situation or remain silent?
Definitely propose. If you get rejected, at least your heart will feel lighter. A 5-minute pain is better than wasting 5-10 years in silence. - How long should I maintain no-contact after a breakup?
If you’re a guy, 21-30 days. If you’re a girl, 45-60 days. Girls don’t move on as quickly. - Does Vashikaran (love spell) really work?
In 20 years, I haven’t seen a single case where Vashikaran saved a relationship. A relationship forced together is bound to break. - Is eloping for an intercaste marriage the right thing to do?
In 99% of cases, it’s wrong. After eloping, the girl is constantly haunted by the fear of society and her family. Get legally married and give your families time – 80% will eventually agree. - My partner is cheating, should I forgive them?
If it’s the first time they’ve been caught and they genuinely regret it, you can give them one chance. If it happens a second time, say goodbye forever. - Why are there more divorces in love marriages?
Because people get married in the intoxication of love, without checking for compatibility. Along with love, value systems and financial thinking should also match.
I’m still single after 30, can I still find love?
Yes, you can, and it will be a much stronger relationship than before. After 30, people don’t love like children – they love with maturity.
Feel free to ask any questions. I’m here for you. 🙏